Monday, April 28, 2008

When it rains it pours!

Friday, I was thinking that this weekend would be a nice relaxing calm weekend where we had nothing specific planned.

But, then I got hit with the news that Virgil had been laid off and my head has just been spinning all weekend. ok... so that's pretty normal feelings, but when you add that to Cadence throwing up Friday night, then getting a fat lip in the morning and then Delaney throwing up all last night and I woke up feeling pretty crappy... sigh... I'm just exhausted! So much for my easy going weekend.

But I'm hangin in there... I know that something really good is going to come of this! It's just been a tough weekend!

Friday, April 25, 2008

Blessing in Disguise?

Well, our prayers have finally been answered! Unfortunately, not the way we had hoped!

Virgil was laid off today and surprisingly, he's in a much better mood tonight than he has been in a long time! As he put it, he's not dreading Monday for once! His work situation was a miserable experience for him and he'd been looking for a new job since before I was laid off in February last year!

Yes, things are going to get rough for a little while, especially with the economy the way it is... but really, something good is going to come out of this! God will prevail! The hardest part is that he only got a 2 wk severance and we had pretty much used up our savings when I was laid off last year and was out of work for 7 months! So we really don't have that much to fall back on.

Starting Monday, Virgil will be a stay at home Dad to save money on daycare/preschool expenses until he is able to start working again! Delaney will still go to preschool on a part-time basis, like she did when I was out last summer. I know he's really going to enjoy that time since he had said his time home while on Paid Family Leave was so much better than going to work in the job he couldn't stand! He's also going to have much more focused time to find a new job.

hmmm... speaking of... I wonder if he could finish off his PFL since Cadence isn't a year old yet? It would pay better than unemployment! Either way, I know we'll be ok. God has always taken care of us! However, all your prayers would be greatly appreciated!

Please pray that the right position come quickly and that it's close to home and pays him what he's really worth!

Friday, April 11, 2008

3 yr old Drama Queen

How on earth did I raise such a Drama Queen... oh wait, I better not say that out loud... err... I mean "Princess!"

That girl has so much attitude, it makes the preteen girls on the Disney Channel look dull!!!

Just so you have an inkling of an idea of what I'm talking about, here is my conversation with her this morning:

(Showing her 2 pairs of panties): Delaney, which ones do you want to wear today? Elmo or Butterflies?
Delaney: I don't want those, I want Princesses.
Me: Delaney, all your Princesses are in the laundry, so you can't wear them.
Delaney: (Rolling her eyes) Then buy me more Princesses Mommy!

Example #2 - Conversation while doing her homework

Delaney: Ok, I'm done
Me: Oh, you forgot to color the letters
Delaney: I don't want to color the letters
Me: But your h/w instructions say you need to color the letters. How about if you color each one different?
Delaney: (growling) I SAAAAID I don't want to color them!
Me: Ok... then Ms. Sherida won't give you a prize for finishing your h/w
Delaney: Oh... ok, which color should I use?

Those are just from the last 24 hrs!!! What am I going to do with that girl!